Recently, a study came out about how New Jerseyans are among the worst when it comes to being honest on dating apps. You can read about that here.

So where are the decent people in the Garden State? Dating News set out to find that out.

The site conducted a survey asking 3,000 single women where the most charming men live.

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When asked to identify traits that best represent a “mannered man,” the results were as follows:
❤️ Patience and understanding: 32%
❤️ Politeness and respect: 31%
❤️ Thoughtfulness and consideration: 19%
❤️ Good communication skills: 14%
❤️ Humility and modesty: 4%

So where should the single ladies in the Garden State be looking?

These are the top three NJ spots for women to find gentlemen:

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3️⃣ Elizabeth

These men are appreciated for their politeness and willingness to lend a hand, making everyone feel important.

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2️⃣ Newark

With a knack for making others feel at ease, Newark men are the epitome of polite and considerate behavior.

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1️⃣ Paterson

It's as if every man in Paterson carries a bit of that timeless, courteous spirit, making respect and kindness a daily practice.

Whether it's a thoughtful act on the bustling streets or a considerate deed in the neighborhood, the men of Paterson surely know how to keep the spirit of chivalry shining bright, ensuring everyone feels valued and appreciated in their dynamic city.

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So there you have it, single ladies (or men, no judgment here), chivalry is not dead in Paterson, NJ.

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The post above reflects the thoughts and observations of New Jersey 101.5's Kylie Moore. Any opinions expressed are Kylie's own. You can follow Kylie on Instagram.
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